Wednesday, 24 July 2019

ENJOYING VICTIMHOOD

Tolle points out that people often construct a sense of self, a sense of identity, around their problems, and thus freeing themselves of their problems would actually cause a crisis of identity. Who would I be without my suffering? 


It's also key to note that there are emotional payoffs one gains by viewing oneself as a victim. Most notably, if you view yourself as a poor victim of the universe, you get to avoid taking responsibility. 




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