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I'll search for information about psychological signs of manipulation to provide you with an informed response.Based on psychological research, here are five subtle signs you're dealing with a master manipulator:

1. They Make You Question Your Own Reality (Gaslighting)

Manipulators deny events that occurred, twist facts, or accuse you of being too sensitive or irrational. Over time, this erodes your self-confidence and makes you more susceptible to their control. They might insist something never happened when it clearly did, or claim they said something they never actually said.

2. They're Exceptionally Perceptive About Your Weaknesses

Master manipulators must be able to predict the reactions people will have to their behaviors. They quickly identify which emotional buttons to push—whether guilt, fear, or obligation—and use that knowledge strategically. What might seem like empathy is actually them gathering intelligence about how to control you.

3. They Create Triangulation

Rather than addressing issues directly with you, they "loop in" someone else—often selectively—to create pressure or to pit people against each other. This might look like sending a "heads up" email to your boss before you've had a chance to respond, or telling family members selective versions of events to build coalitions against you.

4. They Never Accept Responsibility

Whatever they do—or fail to do—it's someone else's fault. When confronted, they shift blame, make excuses, rationalize their behavior, or act surprised. If you're upset, it's because you're too sensitive. If something goes wrong, somehow you caused it.

5. They Cultivate False Closeness

They try to make you feel understood and comfortable, like a confidant or close friend to them. What seems like an equal exchange of information is actually calculated—they're gathering details they can use against you later while revealing little of substance about themselves.

The key is recognizing patterns over time. One or two of these behaviors doesn't necessarily indicate manipulation, but if multiple signs appear consistently and your attempts to set boundaries are met with more confusion or resistance, you're likely dealing with deliberate manipulation.